Are you looking for a meaningful or unique gift for your wife to shake things up this year? Every Christmas holiday do thoughts of flowers, chocolates, or jewellery eventually come into your mind as you rack your brain over what to get her? If this sums up your predicament then take a look at 7 gifts that will wow her and decide which would be the best fit for her (because you love her and know who she is)!
TAKE IN A SHOW
If she loves to laugh then take her to a comedy show; if her favourite band or singer is touring then buy her tickets to the concert when it’s in town; or if she loves theatre then take her to a play. It could be dramatic, funny, musical, or a mix.
CHECK SOMETHING OFF “THE LIST”
Everyone has a list of things their supposed to do. She told you she wanted a decked out walk-in closet. You said you’d do it, but it’s been over a year! Get it done now!
Or maybe she wants you to throw away some old things that you never even use anymore. Repurpose, donate, or recycle that stuff!
WRITE HER SOMETHING
A lot of the time it’s hard to express ourselves and the longer you’ve been with her the more “unnecessary” it feels. She knows you love her right? Maybe, but everyone loves to hear that they’re loved (awww).
Find some nice paper stock at your local craft shop or bookstore and write about how you met, how she’s changed your life, what she means to you, all the little quirks you love about her, or reminisce about when you first met or your first date. She’ll love that you actually remember things, that you’re able to express yourself, and that you put thought into something. On top of that, it’s also a great reminder for yourself and you’ll find that your desire for her will grow too (hopefully). You don’t have to write something “romantic”; the truth will do just fine!
A FOOD LOVER’S EXPERIENCE
I’m personally someone who “eats to live” rather than “lives to eat”, but I can appreciate people who get really excited over food.
If she falls under this latter group of humans then take her to a restaurant that means something to the two of you, take her somewhere fancy she’s always wanted to go, make something special at home, or take her on a “picnic” of sorts.
GIVE HER SOME TIME
Almost everyone feels like they never have time for anything but work and chores. With our ever-busy schedules we don’t have time to sit down and just enjoy each other’s presence so turn off your phone and give it to your dog to hide. Then just snuggle up on the couch together. You don’t have to necessarily talk about anything. Just snuggle up next to each other and go with the flow.
TAKE A MINI VACATION
Everyone loves to take a vacation…enough said. Go!
PRINT A PHOTO
It may sound crazy, but printing a photo of the two of you on one of your dates, the day you moved in together, while on vacation, or any other special occasion is a wonderful gift. Make sure to print it big and put it in a frame that will match the decor of your (or her) home.
Any of these gifts will be unique and meaningful so long as it really comes from the heart. It’s sure to make her smile and maybe even tear up a little. If she’s the most important person in your life then I’m sure you can appreciate that she deserves so much more than anything you could ever give her (but you can try!). That’s why these sorts of gifts that require your time and thoughtfulness are so much meaningful than the typical things you’ll find at the mall that are easily thrown in a bag with a card.
Did we miss anything? Add to the list by commenting below!
BONUS IDEA: GIVE HER A PHOTO SESSION
If you want something really unique then either have a photo session of just her or the two of you together. Creating new memories is always so much fun. If she loves a specific season you can schedule a session during that time outdoors. Make her feel pampered and look to herself the way you see her every day! Just don’t give her a boudoir session as a gift unless she’s explicitly shown interest in the past! Remember…this is her present not yours! ;)
Jonathan How is the photographer behind Made by Ten and calls Milton his home. He specializes in creating beautiful, creative portraits of real women. He uses photography (and this blog) to help them build confidence and love for themselves and creates artistic images for their homes and offices. You can see him driving around the Greater Toronto Area (GTA) in Ontario, Canada from portrait to fashion shoot and back again.